From the moment we start school, it’s all about us and preparing for our career one day. Then we get to high school where we have to make a decision about our next steps, our future career, and what will help prepare me for that career.
Being a father was the furthest thing from my mind and I was never asked even one time, “what will help you be a better father one day?”
Then we go to college and again it’s all about preparing for our career. It’s all about us and what will make us happy!
Then we start the career and of course we want to be successful at our careers.
But then at some point we meet our “better half”, marry them, and then the kids start coming.
We always knew we were going to be fathers at some point.